I Smile Back is tough to watch from the start, and it only gets worse. It tells the story of Laney (Sarah Silverman), a housewife struggling with “drugs and daddy issues”, whose primary question of her therapist is, “which do you want to talk about first?” Laney is married with two young children, so her apparent drug and sex addictions are significant problems for a whole number of reasons.
I am by far the least qualified asshole to diagnose Laney, being the only one who’s not a mental health professional. But since Jay’s in a pain and morphine-induced haze right now, and Matt hasn’t seen the movie, you get stuck with me as your tour guide! So here we go.
First, the easy part. Silverman is excellent in the lead role, and is well-deserving of the acclaim she has received so far (nominated for a SAG Award for Best Actress). I found her very believable as a woman who loves her family and truly wants to be part of it despite struggling with all sorts of stuff. That Silverman is so good makes the movie all that more difficult to watch.
Beyond that, it gets much tougher. Because of how difficult the movie is to watch, looking at I Smile Back critically is very hard for me. I did not like watching it but I know I was never supposed to. Nothing that happens in Laney’s life gives us a lot of hope that things are going to get better, and the movie does not end on a happy note (in fact, at the end things are at their very bleakest). Silverman has made us care about Laney by then. I wanted Laney to get better and repair her relationship with her husband Bruce (Josh Charles), so I was hoping for a typical Hollywood ending.
Suffice to say, I did not get a happy ending, and after reflection I think that was the right decision by writers Paige Dylan and Amy Koppelman (the latter of whom wrote the book on which the movie is based). But something still was missing, and after staring at this computer screen for a while, I think I have put my finger on it. In a meta sense, the movie is worthwhile because it gives Silverman the chance to show a whole other dimension to her acting. But within the movie itself, I Smile Back didn’t give me anything meaningful.
The only meaning I can find within the movie is that anyone may be struggling with mental health and it’s not easy to recover even if he or she really wants to. And while that’s something I agree with, it’s something I already felt coming in and the story in I Smile Back really didn’t go beyond that basic notion. Everything in the movie was consistent with that idea but it felt like we were on a fixed path because of it. Looking back, almost all the characters we meet other than Laney are primarily plot devices to give Laney a chance to make another bad decision, and she rarely misses the opportunity. The opportunity that feels missed is on the part of the writers, who rather than fleshing out characters or situations, just keep things moving by giving Laney more chances to do bad things. Because of that, I never felt that seeing these awful things happen onscreen was worth the pain. I never felt any payoff for my discomfort within the movie and I needed there to be something.
Overall, this movie was worth checking out for Silverman’s performance but it’s really not great otherwise. I give it a score of six out of ten.
Sounds rough, but I don’t think I can miss a movie starring Silverman and Josh Charles unless it is totally unwatchable.
I also wanted to say that I have really appreciated the Assholes reviews as I decide which movies on which to spend my paltry entertainment dollars!
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Thanks! Glad we could help. This is definitely watchable. But very tough.
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I’m looking forward to it. Silverman showed a bit of range in Take This Waltz so I’m interested in seeing what she does in a leading role. Nice review!
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Hmm I’d go to see Silverman , and now I’m curious too 😉
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So glad you did the hard work of watching this so I don’t have to.
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And me.
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I hope Jay gets better soon!
I won’t be watching this one then, I need only happy endings now 🙂
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If you want happy endings, this is DEFINITELY not the movie for you!
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Oh poop I never even heard of Silverman and Charles lol. Please say Hi to Jay, have been sending pink thoughts across the pond. 🙂
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Will do, and thanks for the good thoughts 🙂
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I wasn’t a massive fan of this film. It was certainly a choice to make it tough to watch but I found Silverman’s character to not be empathetic in the slightest. As it continued, the film wasn’t tough for me to watch because of its content, but because I found it had become really rather boring. Interesting to see what somebody else thought about it.
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Silverman’s been getting a lot of positive buzz for the role. That alone makes me interested.
By the way, we’re never ‘stuck’ with you! Hope Jay is doing okay.
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Thanks Carrie! Silverman is worth checking out. I wasn’t expecting this much from her. And thanks for asking about Jay, she’s in a ton of pain right now but hopefully it will lead to less pain long-term!
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I hope so. No fun to be in pain, especially the back. 😦
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I am still intrigued by Silverman playing a serious role. Might check it out anyway.
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Silverman is really good here, no doubt about that. I’m glad I saw this for that reason alone.
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I’m not a fan of Silverman nor of painful movies, so I’ll give this one a pass.
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Doesn’t even sound good.
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Ugh. Sounds painful to watch. You did good braving through it! Lol
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Silverman, is well known for her humor. But, I recently saw a clip of her performance in this film. It was brutal.
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“Brutal” is a very good description of the movie, from start to finish!
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great review. I also thought that Silverman was excellent here and despite the hard to watch themes, it was compelling because I like you was hoping for a positive instead of a realistic ending.
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Thanks! Yeah, the ending really left me with no hope at all…
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* Spoiler* I actually thought she was gonna die 😉
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