It’s been a long road back from back surgery, and I’m not out of the woods yet, I still have healing to do, but the minute I had the tubes finally detached from me and I tasted a little freedom, Sean and I were leaving on a jet plane, headed for sunny Mexico.
One of my favourite offbeat comedies is The Mexican – totally incidentally, I’m sure. In it, Brad Pitt has shit luck. He’s the lowest rung of organized crime and is being sent to Mexico, against his will, “for one last job” to pick up a beautiful antique gun that just happens to be cursed. His girlfriend, Julia Roberts, is tired of this shit. She’s tired of her relationship going according to some mob boss’s whim. So they break up, profusely. He goes to Mexico and puts on a pretty good gringo act, and she drives to Vegas in her Bug, a woman scorned. Until she meets James Gandolfini, who kidnaps and holds her ansom for the ancient pistol.
I’m totally charmed by this movie every time I watch it. I love how Brad Pitt and JK Simmons are openly mocked by the Mexicans. I’m positively tickled by it. And I adore the chemistry between Roberts and Gandolfini. It’s not to be missed.
The Mexico in The Mexican is not the one tourists normally see. It’s dirt floors and seedy bars and low riders. It may be a Mexico that only exists in movies. Sean and I were in need of some rest and restoration, so opted for the good old all-inclusive resort side of Mexico (which is not real Mexico either, but it sure tastes pleasant), with the cheerful Mariachi bands and the frozen margaritas with salty rims.
We stayed on the Mayan Riviera and sunk our toes into the hot, white sand. We got uneven sunburns from underneath palapas. We renewed our vows beside an ancient temple, a ruin on a rocky island just metres from the beach. It was beautiful, as Mexico always is.
Oh, gee, I have some catching up to do. I didn’t realize you’d had surgery. Tubes, ugh. I hope everything is going smoothly and that you’re comfortable at least. Rest, relax, and watch movies! Loved the Mexican.
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Hope you’re feeling better Jay 😦
You know, The Mexican is a movie I’ve always known by name, but never actually known anything about the plot. It sounds like something I’d really enjoy, and I’m adding it to my watchlist now 🙂
– Allie
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Yes, I think you should check it out!
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Sounds like a much-deserved and much-needed trip. Glad you had such a wonderful time. I haven’t seen this movie. I could use a little Mexican sunshine right about now. Pretty cold where I’m at. Brr.
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Yeah, spring is feeling a lot like winter so far!
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lol, i loved this movie!! and reading your take..i love it even more:)!!!!!
have fun, im glad to read you’ve been detached… hope the healing will be fast now….
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It’s actually way way slower but who cares, I’M DETACHED!!!! 🙂
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And that’s a good thing!!! Sending good vibes your way Jay
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I’ve never seen this one – maybe if it’s on Netflix or Amazon I’ll watch it (and likely want to go on vacation immediately!).
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Newly-Vowed Jay & Sean,
I don’t really know how I feel about Mexico and I sorta like that. I loved The Mexican…the vibe…the weirdness…shots fired into the air!
Cheers,
Mark
p.s. Swimming is kick-ass for core-strengthening with back issues…go really slowly at first and really really alternate – 2 lengths freestyle – 2 lengths back stroke – 2 lengths breast stroke…happy summer Jay!
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Glad you had a nice vacation.
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Glad you are on the mend, and The Mexican is one of my proper fave films. 🙂
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i’ve heard a few bad things about the mexican, but i personally really enjoyed it! had a real wacky dark comedy vibe, reminded me a lot of the coen brothers’ later “burn after reading”, actually, but replacing a disk with a gun. pitt’s character is remarkably similar.. anyways, here’s hoping your recovery goes smoothly from here on out!
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It’s exciting to see The Assholes in the flesh. That’s not the first time I’ve typed that by the way 🙂
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I haven’t seen this movie in years and should watch it again. It looks and sounds like you had a great time.
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That’s the Mexico I’d want to visit. Glad to hear you’re on the mend, Jay. :O)
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Great stuff! The Mexican, Mexico, sun, sand, and renewing vows … all bound to help with the recovery, I reckon!
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Well, except the sand. Sand in surgical wounds turns out to not be the greatest thing 😉
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Oooft. Aye – that’s probably not so good.
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Best wishes for your recovery Jay.
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Best wishes on the recovery!
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I hope everything is going well on your recovery.
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Glad to hear you are slowly getting better:) I love Julia Roberts and I have yet to see The Mexican. Time to do so;)
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Wow! It’s been ages since I’ve seen this one!
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I’m glad you got to rest a bit, Jay!
That’s a beautiful picture of you too! 🙂
(And thanks again for the dose of hope and love!)
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This makes me sooo happy to read and see! I hope you came back thoroughly refreshed! Mexico has lots of beauty and is not all the crazy cancun crap trap tourism wants you to believe. Renewing your vows here after such a serious surgery sounds perfect. ❤️ Congrats to you guys for getting it right. Xoxo
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