Michelle Obama’s post-White House memoir Becoming explored her roots and the path she followed to become the formidable woman we know and respect today. Her new documentary on Netflix, also titled Becoming, shadows her on her massively successful book tour, and focuses more on the role and the identity she’s forging for herself as a former First Lady who still has a lot to give.
Director Nadia Hallgren crafts the sort of documentary that will have you asking why this incredible woman won’t just run for President herself – but if you’re paying attention, Michelle Obama answers that question in every word and sigh. It’s clear that her eight year sentence in the White House has taken its toll. For America’s first black First Family, the presidential spotlight meant constant scrutiny and a constant need for carefully modulated perfection. The First Families that preceded and succeeded them have been allowed far less criticism for far greater blemishes. The Obamas knew that theirs would be treated differently and they played the part. But while Michelle Obama’s poise seemed effortless, Becoming shows the emotional impact, even the trauma, incurred for an accomplished and intelligent woman to mute her voice. And while she was a beloved First Lady for her husband’s entire term in office, it’s clear that she has now stepped confidently out of his shadow, and that the country, and even the world, has a thirst and a fervor for this new, less filtered, more authentic Michelle Obama.
While the documentary isn’t revealing any deep dark secrets, it does allow Michelle Obama to let down her hair – sometimes literally, into luscious curls, and to step out of the First Lady’s shoes – carefully curated by a stylist who understood her White House role as a costumer projecting class and elegance and respectability – and into gold, glittery, thigh-high boots, if that’s what she wants. The White House has changed her but it hasn’t silenced her. It hasn’t convinced her mother to stop favouring her brother, or her staff to stop teasing her, or her daughters to stop needing her. Seeing her nestled amongst any and all of these people gives us a clearer sense of who she is. And while those of us on the outside can’t help but respect and admire her, we see how much that holds true, and in fact truer, for those who know her more intimately.
Loved her book and look forward to the documentary. I miss her. Great review, Jay.
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Wonderful review! I really liked her memoir and was wondering how this would turn out
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I read the book so, I’m intrested in seeing this 😉
Amazon gave me a credit today, so I ordered the book. Great review of the series!
Thanks for the review, Jay. I enjoyed her book and found her journey to the White House a very inspirational story for women. I look forward to watching the documentary.
As a Brit, I know very little about Michelle Obama but she seems like such an inspiring lady. I’m adding this to my watchlist!
I didn’t know there was a doc. I’ll have to look out for it.
Crazy people in our world! A great review!👍
Even as a Canadian, I have so much admiration for her:-)
You said, “The First Families that preceded and succeeded them have been allowed far less criticism for far greater blemishes,” so I couldn’t complain about the UPROAR that happened when she said (sic) “this was the first time in her adult life she was proud of America….”
compared to “Haiti is a shithole country” and “Can people inject disinfectants to stop coronavirus?”
…but I still managed to get it in anyway, lol. Michelle’s a much greater woman than I will ever be.
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